I’m Stuck! Help! Part 1
Have you ever been stuck financially? I mean STUCK. Do you feel so stuck that you can’t gain traction to get control of your finances?
Perhaps you have no income because you have lost your job. Maybe you’re in college and accumulating debt to pay for it. Perhaps your spouse spends money faster than you can make it. Or maybe you’re just lost when it comes to managing money. It might even be the fact that you have so much unsecured debt that you feel completely helpless. Maybe you’re disabled, and can’t figure out what to do to earn more money.
This series is written for those who are struggling with their finances. You might even be making tough decisions about what will and will not be paid this month. It is my hope to provide practical steps you can take to walk out of this situation and into a fully funded life.
Let’s get started on the journey and get unstuck!
PART ONE Evaluate
It is extremely important to understand why you are stuck. You must ask yourself challenging questions. There are some situations that have definite ends to them (college) and other situations that may continue on indefinitely (job loss, disability, and overwhelming debt).
When I’m coaching a person who says, “Help! I can not pay my bills!” my immediate response is to evaluate the root cause of their situation. I ask questions to grasp the real issues. Here are some of the questions I ask to help move you along in your financial journey. These are not in any particular order.
“What was the cause of this situation?” Is your financial situation the result of a long series of poor financial decisions or the result of a catastrophic event like a job loss, medical issue without insurance, death of income provider, etc.? Can you point to a particular poor financial decision that has led to your financial challenges?
“Is this an INCOME or an OUTGO issue?” Prepare a budget to help you more clearly determine the answer to this question. Identify where your money is going using your credit card and bank statements. As you identify you monthly income and total expenses from the previous month, it is important to challenge each expense with the question, “Was this expense absolutely necessary?” While most people in financial challenges believe their issue is an income problem, I’ve learned from experience that in most cases, it is an OUTGO issue.
“What are the required debt payments?” As you identify all of your debt payments, determine if each one is unsecured revolving debt (credit cards) or installment debt on an asset (car, boat, motorcycle, etc)?
As you identify why you are stuck, write the reasons down on paper.
Do you have other questions that you would add to this list?
5 Easy Steps to Budgeting – Step 5
In this series of post, I’ve been sharing the process that Jenn and I followed to develop a budget that actually worked! We have developed a monthly spending plan or budget every single month since that first one way back in July of 2003!
Here are the steps that we’ve already discussed.
STEP ONE Decide to decide
Until you decide that budgeting is crucial to taking your finances to the next level, you’ll be stuck! Decide to live differently and decide to start winning with your money NOW.
STEP TWO Determine the income (take-home pay) you will receive during the NEXT month
Planning ahead allows you to determine if there are any gaps. By being ahead of the game, it provides you an opportunity to avoid “budget-busting” events.
STEP THREE Enter all of your expenses for NEXT month
Tell your money where to go!
STEP FOUR INCOME – OUTGO = EXACTLY ZERO
Whether you make $1,500 per month or $50,000 per month, it is limited. If you spend more than you make, you will erode savings or turn to debt!
STEP FIVE Follow the budget!
Now you know all the steps. You have a spending plan for next month. Now is the time to live it. YOU told your money where to go now YOU make sure it goes there!
I’ve been able to see people completely break free of debt. I have seen people pay off their mortgages! I have seen marriages restored! I have seen the hopeless become hopeful!
Following a budget is about more than money. It’s about becoming FREE! Not being held by the chains of debt and despair. You will become financially free if you stick to a budget. This is a decision you will not regret.
Maybe you have read this series in a guarded, protected way while wondering, “Will this work for me? I don’t want to get my hopes up. I’ve tried this before.” I say that YOU CAN DO THIS!!! I believe in you! Why? Because I was there! I had an average bank balance of $4.13 and the STRESS was awful! The shame was real. I did not know how to break free.
Planning my spending one month in advance was what broke Jenn and me free! It will work for you too!
Why not pull up a free budgeting tool and get started winning with your money today?
If you get paid monthly or have at least one month of expenses in the bank, use our Monthly Budget Form. If you are living paycheck-to-paycheck, use the Weekly Budget Form.
If you would like to learn more about how to budget, check out my newly revised book, I Was Broke. Now I’m Not. Click HERE to order!
5 Easy Steps to Budgeting – Step 4
In this series of post, I am sharing the process that Jenn and I followed to develop a budget that actually worked!
Here are the steps that have already been shared.
STEP ONE Decide to decide
You can not start winning with your money until you decide that budgeting is crucial to taking your finances to the next level.
STEP TWO Determine the income (take-home pay) you will receive during the NEXT month
The key word in Step Two is NEXT. A budget must be completed BEFORE the month begins and BEFORE the money ever arrives.
STEP THREE Enter all of your expenses for the NEXT month
This is where you get to actually spend your money on paper before the month arrives!
STEP FOUR INCOME – OUTGO = EXACTLY ZERO
YOUR INCOME IS LIMITED! If you bring home $3,000 during the next month and spend $3,208, your spending plan will not work! Where will the extra $208 come from? It will have to come from savings OR from debt – usually in the form of a credit card. If you spend more than you make, no matter how much you make, you WILL have to make that up somehow!
In Steps Two and Three, we entered all of the income and expenses into the budget and, no surprise, the OUTGO exceeded the INCOME. You can see the entire budget HERE.
So OUTGO exceeds INCOME…now what? We have two options.
- Increase the INCOME – you could get a 2nd job, work overtime, turn a hobby into a business
- Decrease the OUTGO – get rid of some expenses
NOTE: This is not a “perhaps, perhaps, perhaps” type of budget! This is how the family will ACTUALLY spend their money next month! Remember – if your budget is not 100% relevant for you and your family, you will ignore the budget and use it to start a fire in your fireplace!
What expenses can be eliminated from the example budget? Again, you can pull a copy of the budget HERE.
After working together on their budget, the family decides on the following changes.
SUCCESS!! INCOME – OUTGO = EXACTLY ZERO!
If you want to see the entire EXACTLY ZERO budget, you can view it HERE. You might be saying, “These people are CRAZY! They cut out 1/2 of their dining out, entertainment, blow money, and all of their babysitting money!” I would say – “NOPE! They have had enough. They are so sick of living paycheck-to-paycheck that they are willing to live differently and change their lives forever. All because of a little sacrifice now!”
We only have ONE step left!!
5 Easy Steps to Budgeting – Step 3
First, let’s review Steps One and Two.
STEP ONE Decide to decide
You have to decide that you’ve had enough! The very day that Jenn and I started budgeting was the very day that we started winning with money!
STEP TWO Determine the income (take-home pay) you will receive during the NEXT month
This income is what you will be spending on paper BEFORE the month, the money, and the bills ever arrive!
STEP THREE Enter all of your expenses for the NEXT month
This is where we get to actually spend our money on paper! So we have already determined our income for next month, now it is time to actually spend the money BEFORE the month arrives! The absolute best way I have found to input my expenses is to use real, actual expenses that will happen. NOT averages for the year. If you don’t know the actual cost, enter an educated guess based on recent spending.
If the expenses are not relevant to the next month, it is highly possible that you will consider the budget irrelevant for the next month!!
Enter all of the expenses into your budget. You can obtain a FREE COPY of our budgets by clicking HERE. To find out which budget is right for you, check out Step Two of this series.
Each budget form has some excellent features built into it:
- If OUTGO exceeds INCOME, the TOTAL will turn RED and tell you how much you have overspent! Do not stop if the total goes red! Can you live with a total in the RED? Absolutely, with the help of credit cards! Living in the red is how people get into debt and stay in debt.
- If INCOME exceeds OUTGO, the TOTAL will turn YELLOW and tell you how much more money needs to be named!
- When INCOME = OUTGO, the TOTAL will turn GREEN…This is the ultimate goal!
- There is an ACTUAL column that can be used throughout the month to track your progress.
Our goal for this step is to get all the expenses into the budget. We’ll work on getting it green next.
How are you doing so far entering all your income and expenses into the budget?
5 Easy Steps to Budgeting – Step 2
I’m answering one of the most common questions that people ask me – “how do I budget?” In Step One, I wrote about the negative feelings that people have when they hear the word “budget”.
Just remember that a budget is nothing more than telling your money where to go.
So let’s review before we move on to Step Two!
STEP ONE Decide to decide
This is where it begins! You must decide to live differently and not paycheck-to-paycheck.
STEP TWO Determine the income (take-home pay) you will receive during the NEXT month
The key work in Step Two is “NEXT”. Preparing a budget for money you’ve already spent is not very fruitful. A budget must be completed BEFORE the month begins and BEFORE the money ever even ARRIVES!
The best way to stop saying, “I can’t believe I spent my money that way” and “I wish I could have that money back” is to develop a spending plan BEFORE the money is received that month!
So, what income will you receive during the next month?
- Paycheck
- Bonus
- Side Job
- Child Support
- Alimony
If you get paid monthly or you have at least one month of expenses in the bank, we recommend you use our Monthly Budget Form (It’s FREE). If your income is unpredictable, write down the amount of money you can count on. (If your income is irregular or unpredictable, stay tuned for specifics of how to deal with that later this month!)
If you are living paycheck-to-paycheck, all the bills probably cannot be paid at the start of the month. You will need to develop a budget for each individual paycheck. We recommend using our Weekly Budget Form (It’s FREE). Make the dates at the top of the weekly budget form match up to your income dates and enter the income in the INCOME section.
Stay tuned for Step Three…